How can we discuss sex in halal modest way including open mindedness, boundaries to try new things, and sexual expectations.

So, I would say that premarital counseling is probably going to be the best way to address this topic.

Obviously like I said before intimacy is a very crucial part of marriage but at the same time we have to be very careful in the way that we bring up this topic because trust comes before intimacy, right?

And so if this type of topic is brought up without trust, it could really deter the direction in which the relationship is going in. That's my two cents when it comes to that.