What topics suggested by either party should be considered questionable, troublesome, red flags?

I don't think that really any questions or any terms or suggestions should necessarily be considered a red flag

I think that it's really dependent on what you want out of marriage.

Do you envision marriage where your money is your money, his money is his money, or her money is her money.

Do you both have careers? Are you both working?

So all of this is kind of an interrelated discussion. And I don't think really anything should be left on the table.

I think the red flags are really personal and subjective to what you are looking for.

You know, if, if I'm... a guy and I say that I believe that there shouldn't be anything considered marital property unless we both agree that both of our names are going to go onto this house that's what I'm going to consider marital property anything that's in my account is mine anything in your account is yours.

I don't see that as a red flag.

I don't see the other way saying that everything that we had before the marriage I keep everything you had before the marriage, you keep, but everything from this point on forward will belong to both of us 50/50, perfect.

I don't think we should really look at this in terms of red flags.

I think that we should look at it as part of the pre marital screening process.

Because finances are a very big reason for divorce in the Muslim community.